The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. Posted byAmyLAdlerExecutiveResumeWriter April 15, 2017 Leave a comment on The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. The trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same. – Carlos Castaneda